Man Laws….about Best Friends Exes?
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me and my girlfriend split up about two or three months ago over silly things, but at the time neither of us was thinking right….i stopped talking with her for awhile but i still kinda liked her…and now i do, but she has a small crush on my best friend…hes trying to hook up with her, and he knows i still like her…..is that messed up? and how do i tell him than without looking like an ***-hole??
13 Responses to “Man Laws….about Best Friends Exes?”
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
If you and her broke up over something that silly then it wasn’t a very good relationship to begin with. Let him have her, it is not like you can’t find another one. If he had made advances towards her when you and her were dating, that is a different story. It would be harder to make a new best friend. Good luck.
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
you need to tell him – pretty much everything you said here, tell him BUT then again, there’s nothing you can really do if she likes him…just talk to him
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
cant force someone to like u, shes in love with ur best friend, u should b happy, find ur self another girl and get over it….
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
better speak up or he’ll tap that and your be very mad, and you’ll have lost your girl, If you want her speak up and let her know you want her back.
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
Simple..just say buddies don’t date buddies’ exs. Especially when there’s feelings still involved.
From my point of view, he’s not your buddy anyway.
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
Sorry Chester. It sucks but all is fair in love and war. If this girl cared for you as much as you did for her she wouldn’t be looking at your best mate!
Look elsewhere. Ask yourself this question too; is he such a good friend to be snarking on your ex? Girls don’t like that game at all. We tend to have a rule of leave him alone for at least while. Maybe 3 mos. is the magic number…
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
My husband informs me that according to man law code your best friend is NOT permitted to flirt with, ask out, or otherwise engage in promiscuous behavior with your ex. Email this question to the jerk.
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
Take the patch off of your eye. You are not a pirate. Next, stand the mate next to the gang plank, blindfold him and make him walk.
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
Holy Man Law cow. This guy is Not your friend. He needs to be your wing man, and should tell her you want to hook up.
I work with a Personal Trainer, and he has created the MAN LAW BOOK, and we talked about this particular law. “Another guy should NEVER get in bed with his friends’ ex.” Enough said, it’s a law. More important, it’s a MAN LAW!
Upon confronting this potential felon, the word “relationship” may enter into the conversation. Bullcrap! The only thing I’ve ever thought about one of my friends girlfriends or even wives is SEX! How would it be? Would I be better? I can give her what she wants….He needs to know the MAN LAW BOOK, and if you don’t get the message across, then he needs to pay your next ten child support payments.
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
Dude ur friend is so wrong if he was a real friend he would back out of ur gurl you should let him know before ur friend ship get in the wait
Posted: August 22nd, 2009
I don’t know about anyone else…but, best friends do not hook up with their best friends exes. They run the risk of losing the friendship. However, if your best friend knows how you feel about this girl and still wants to hook up with her, then the reality is whether or not he can still be your best friend. On the other hand, if you know this ex has a crush on your best friend, it might be wise to let her know how you feel and the possibility of losing a friendship. This will put the ball in her court