My Self Esteem Is Shattered I Really Am Ugly And Look Like A Guy! Please Help?

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I have to go to school in 10 minutes but I don’t want to. I really DO look like a guy (people here told me so) and I really am UGLY.
I seriously want to die I’m almost 14

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5 Responses to “My Self Esteem Is Shattered I Really Am Ugly And Look Like A Guy! Please Help?”

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    summerdr said:
    Posted: December 23rd, 2009

      Trust me, at 13 you are not the only one at school who considers themselves ugly.
      I don’t know what you look like or why you think you look like a guy but you are young!!
      True story…when I was in junior high I was thin as a rail, no breasts, not a clue how to dress or do my hair and I def did not consider myself attractive.And I got made fun of. Eventually I filled out, put in a little more effort and took pride in myself and became more confident. In high school I dated the star of the baseball team and I was prom queen! Not that there is anything all that special about that ha ha but it just goes to show that you are going to change over the years.
      I am 27 now and married and I still have days when I criticize myself, we all do. It human nature.
      I know school can be hard and people can be cruel but make the best of it. Be confident, walk tall. Someday you will wonder why you worried so much.

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    Me I said:
    Posted: December 23rd, 2009

      I am 14 and dont think this about yourself! If your always insulting yourself and thinking negative thoughts then of course you will feel this way.I bet you are really pretty but are just not that confident in yourself.I sometimes feel this way to everyone does and everyone has something that they dont like about themselves but your you so you have to live with it.Just look in the mirror every day and tell yourself that you are beautiful because everyone is beautiful in their own way.If you really think your ugly (which i bet your not) then you could try wearing make-up I do and it gives me more confidence in myself.But other people see you differntly than you see yourself and really if your a nice person people will like you for being you it dosnt matter how you look. And please dont say you want to die.You have your whole life ahead of you and you have to belive in yourself.All teenage girls hate the way they look and nobody is perfect but just remember that there are people in the world with real problems-there are people in africa who are starving,theres people with really bad disabilities,people living on the streets.So would you rather be those people? just think about it.You have to love yourself. x

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    Jenn S said:
    Posted: December 23rd, 2009

      How can you look like a guy your a Girl,People are always bitchy and nasty at school that is part of life and yes it makes you feel like crap but i just used to give as good as i got

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    Naolin said:
    Posted: December 23rd, 2009

      Without a picture I can’t say whether that’s accurate or not, but since you’re only 13 you’ve got some physical changes to grow through yet. Hang in there, yeah?

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    honestly i dont know said:
    Posted: December 23rd, 2009

      whoa
      you need to chill
      you’re 13

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