Why Beautiful Asian Girls Are So Difficult To Seduce ?
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I tried so many times to ask out Asian girls, but they always politely refused.
They usually say ” sorry, I already have a boyfriend”, or ” I’m too busy ” or ” I don’t have cell phone”,etc…
But sometimes I can see in the streets some common guys ( and most of them are not hansome at all ) who have an Asian beautiful girl-friend , so I just can’t understand how they could manage to find single girls.
And even if the girl is single, she may also refuse if I’m not her type ( I’m half turkish half spanish). So it’s such a non-sense seeing so beautiful Asian girls who accept to go out with some ugly guys ( white,black or whatever ), and they keep refusing me.
What should I do and say if I want to seduce an Asian woman ?
Why is it so complicated ?
14 Responses to “Why Beautiful Asian Girls Are So Difficult To Seduce ?”
Posted: December 20th, 2009
because most Asians are not into the whole (what most American call) “dating”.they want COURTSHIP which is–lets get to know each other better before we call each other boyfriend/girlfriend or sleep together.and when i say better its not a couple of dates or two but longer,way loonger.try to think of em as old fashion.and o yea,and respect their family.if they have to choose between a lover or any member of their family(even a distant cousin) theyl ditch you in a sec..hope that helps
Posted: December 20th, 2009
Ask first Who Am I?
Posted: December 20th, 2009
You got to stop hanging around the elementary school (joke).
Thai women like lighter skin in general and they like guys who dress up and smell good; take care of themselves. I’m not picking on you I’m just saying that if your not, you might try a clean shirt, a shave, a little deoderant and a shoe shine. I could be that your pressing too hard, lighten up a bit. Just hang out and get to know people rather than trying to cull the herd. They are people try treating them like people and maybe you’ll find somebody who likes you.
Posted: December 20th, 2009
Ah, maybe you just haven’t run across the right one yet. Just keep probing around you’ll finally find that Right One…
Posted: December 20th, 2009
Life is complicated. The dating/mating scene is even more complicated.
I suggest you ask Oprah or Dr. Phil.
Posted: December 20th, 2009
Maybe you simply arent our type. Just because you like someone doesnt mean they will like you back…
Posted: December 20th, 2009
There is another Phil that provides some insights.
Posted: December 20th, 2009
I dont like your word seduce. If all those girls you are trying to seduce rejected you, that mean they could be from a good upbringing families and “sensed” your bad intentions. The answerer above me got very good point that you should look into although he may not cover all yet!
Posted: December 20th, 2009
the guys you see with the girls go to that country and bring them back.Alot of the girls come from poverty and if they can find a rich old man to take care of them they will.If you want to get an asian girlfriend go to Asia you will find it alot more easy.I am not putting the girls down,if a girl can find someone to take care of them and provide everything for them and their family it is up to them.Alot of the time it is actually up to the girls parents.Go to Asia and you will find this out!
Posted: December 20th, 2009
Dude, I’d say you gotta find another approach. Maybe your pick up lines don’t work, maybe you come accross too desparate, maybe you have an aura of impregnability, could be many reasons. I myself am European living in China and I never had any problem seducing any woman, not only Asian, and I’m definitely not one of the California Dream Men or filthy rich or the likes. It’s all in the approach.
Posted: December 20th, 2009
You should come off more serious they don’t like nonsense. I had a few of them, and I’m far from ugly bro. So you can also just hit up a massage polar they all work there.
Posted: December 20th, 2009
Uh where exactly are these women? It would help to know. Since I’m not sure I’ll assume that they are in the US.
In Asia I’m not exactly Mr. Perfect but I have never had this problem. I’m in my 40’s but I get chatted up even at Robinson’s (An Asian department store) by girls with Master’s Degrees. This happens all the time and in a couple of different countries. I can’t be that special it is just a difference of opportunity and culture wherever you are at.
I’m guessing therefore that it is in the US. Here it is very different. You need to be closer to the same age and you need to underestand their personal culture and situations a little more if you are looking for a date.
Get to know the woman just a little before asking. For example simple conversation and deduce if they are in a relationship or they are available. What are their likes. What do they like to do for fun in their spare time. Do you have anything in common? Be positive never never never be negative about anything when you are 1st meeting someone, anyone. If you don’t like something move on or just be polite.
Be positive, assume what they are saying is true. Move on the odds are in your favor but not everyone is right for everyone else.
If you are really into this whole scene determine if they are born in the US or somewhere else if they are from somewhere else learn a little about their culture. For me I love love love Asian cultures and history. I travel there a lot. I’m married to a beautiful Asian woman and we are very happy together.
One of the things that I thinks makes our marriage work so well and also helped us hit it off the second we met was that we both took the time to learn and be open to each other’s cultures. That made conversation very easy and since it was a place we were both happy in it gave us a lot to talk about.
Hope this helps.
Good luck.
Posted: December 20th, 2009
It is because seducing is not in Asian culture – but courtship is. For East Asian (Chinese, Japanese, Korean), it’s the brain that counts – particularly if you are a nerdy type, than you are likeable (generally). For Southeast Asians (Filipinos, Thai, Indonesian, etc.), it’s the face that counts – so if you look Western, you’ll pass.
Secondly, by attempting to seduce a girl signifies your lack of respect for her – among Asians it is usually cool to “court the parents”, who will then agree on letting the girl go to you. However, given your ethnicity, Turkish-Spanish, it seems that only the Filipinos would prefer you, because Chinese and any other East Asian for that matter are highly endogamous and enter into a relationship only with parental consent.
Posted: December 20th, 2009
Ok, let me think…, I am not handsome, but beautiful Asian girls like to hang out with me. Maybe it’s because I am Asian.. No wait… Asian girls like non-Asian guys better. Maybe they like ugly guys then.. so..Try to look ugly.