Comments on: Why Beautiful Asian Girls Are So Difficult To Seduce ?

By: elliott b

elliott b — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 13:38:22 +0000

Ok, let me think…, I am not handsome, but beautiful Asian girls like to hang out with me. Maybe it’s because I am Asian.. No wait… Asian girls like non-Asian guys better. Maybe they like ugly guys then.. so..Try to look ugly.

By: ANDERSON P

ANDERSON P — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 12:49:33 +0000

It is because seducing is not in Asian culture – but courtship is. For East Asian (Chinese, Japanese, Korean), it’s the brain that counts – particularly if you are a nerdy type, than you are likeable (generally). For Southeast Asians (Filipinos, Thai, Indonesian, etc.), it’s the face that counts – so if you look Western, you’ll pass.
Secondly, by attempting to seduce a girl signifies your lack of respect for her – among Asians it is usually cool to “court the parents”, who will then agree on letting the girl go to you. However, given your ethnicity, Turkish-Spanish, it seems that only the Filipinos would prefer you, because Chinese and any other East Asian for that matter are highly endogamous and enter into a relationship only with parental consent.

By: African Farmer

African Farmer — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 11:59:13 +0000

Uh where exactly are these women? It would help to know. Since I’m not sure I’ll assume that they are in the US.
In Asia I’m not exactly Mr. Perfect but I have never had this problem. I’m in my 40’s but I get chatted up even at Robinson’s (An Asian department store) by girls with Master’s Degrees. This happens all the time and in a couple of different countries. I can’t be that special it is just a difference of opportunity and culture wherever you are at.
I’m guessing therefore that it is in the US. Here it is very different. You need to be closer to the same age and you need to underestand their personal culture and situations a little more if you are looking for a date.
Get to know the woman just a little before asking. For example simple conversation and deduce if they are in a relationship or they are available. What are their likes. What do they like to do for fun in their spare time. Do you have anything in common? Be positive never never never be negative about anything when you are 1st meeting someone, anyone. If you don’t like something move on or just be polite.
Be positive, assume what they are saying is true. Move on the odds are in your favor but not everyone is right for everyone else.
If you are really into this whole scene determine if they are born in the US or somewhere else if they are from somewhere else learn a little about their culture. For me I love love love Asian cultures and history. I travel there a lot. I’m married to a beautiful Asian woman and we are very happy together.
One of the things that I thinks makes our marriage work so well and also helped us hit it off the second we met was that we both took the time to learn and be open to each other’s cultures. That made conversation very easy and since it was a place we were both happy in it gave us a lot to talk about.
Hope this helps.
Good luck.

By: ?

Sun, 20 Dec 2009 11:09:22 +0000

You should come off more serious they don’t like nonsense. I had a few of them, and I’m far from ugly bro. So you can also just hit up a massage polar they all work there.

By: Tinamou

Tinamou — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 10:41:16 +0000

Dude, I’d say you gotta find another approach. Maybe your pick up lines don’t work, maybe you come accross too desparate, maybe you have an aura of impregnability, could be many reasons. I myself am European living in China and I never had any problem seducing any woman, not only Asian, and I’m definitely not one of the California Dream Men or filthy rich or the likes. It’s all in the approach.

By: Scott

Scott — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 10:27:48 +0000

the guys you see with the girls go to that country and bring them back.Alot of the girls come from poverty and if they can find a rich old man to take care of them they will.If you want to get an asian girlfriend go to Asia you will find it alot more easy.I am not putting the girls down,if a girl can find someone to take care of them and provide everything for them and their family it is up to them.Alot of the time it is actually up to the girls parents.Go to Asia and you will find this out!

By: Negeshia

Negeshia — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 10:05:07 +0000

I dont like your word seduce. If all those girls you are trying to seduce rejected you, that mean they could be from a good upbringing families and “sensed” your bad intentions. The answerer above me got very good point that you should look into although he may not cover all yet!

By: HK gal

HK gal — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 09:56:36 +0000

There is another Phil that provides some insights.

By: prowelde…

prowelde… — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 09:53:08 +0000

Maybe you simply arent our type. Just because you like someone doesnt mean they will like you back…

By: prowelde…

prowelde… — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 09:13:28 +0000

Life is complicated. The dating/mating scene is even more complicated.
I suggest you ask Oprah or Dr. Phil.